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Wednesday, May 18, 2011

Why Ignorance?

There are many changes come across in life, Marriage is making us see the change more clearly. Before marriage couples are usually careful about being on their best behavior to impress one another. I agree that we should learn to accept both the weaknesses and strength but it doesn’t mean we should always compromise for everything. 

Why commitments and promises made before marriage are not kept after marriage?

The main problem of couples is “their thinking is different”. Marriages are based on empathy, responsibility, commitment, love & concern.  Marriage is responsibility and Love is freedom.
After Marriage we become granted to one another and there will very less fear of losing one another and we slowing start ignorance, carelessness, and giving less importance.

There is a saying “The importance of a thing or a person is realized before gaining them and after losing them.

Imagine what happens to you when you come to know your husband is not your dream boy about whom you have dreamed from age of sixteen.

You will become a bird with open cage sacred to fly away. You feel the only option left to you is “compromise”, is that true?

Life does not come with a guarantee card then why does it come with such a heavy "PRICE TAG" attached to it, we find women struggle in life at every turn and men get to enjoy the freedom same as before.....women usually are part of the daily trivial that life has to offer and still men are the self proclaimed hard workers and the most affected and the ones who pay the heaviest price are the women who juggle between home and work, they responsibility is far more than the male of the house.

Tuesday, May 17, 2011

It is another chance for you ! !...

It’s morning... I have to go to the office.

Ohh!! this is me... I shouted, having a glance at
my 'photo' in today's news paper.

But what the HELL it is doing in the death column??

Strange...

One second.......Let me think, last night when I
was going to bed I had a severe pain in my chest,
but I don't remember anything after that, I think
I had a sound sleep.

It's morning now, ohh....... It's already 10:00 AM,
where is my coffee?

I will be late for office and my boss will get a
chance to irritate me..

Where is everyone...??? I screamed.

"I think there is a crowd outside my room!" I said to myself.

So many people..... Not all but some of them are crying....

WHAT IS THIS?... I'm lying there on the floor.!..

"I AM HERE" ....... I shouted!!!.. No one is listening.

"LOOK I AM NOT DEAD" .... I screamed once again!!

No one is interested in me.

They all were looking at me on the bed.

I went back to my bed room. "Am I dead??" I asked myself...

Where is my wife, my children, my Mom, my Dad, my friends?

I found them in the next room, all of them were

crying...still trying to console each other.

My wife was crying... she was really looking sad.

My little kid was not sure what happened, but he

was crying just because his Mom was sad..

How can I go without saying to my kid that I really love him?

I really do care for him.

How can I go without saying to my wife that

she is the most caring wife in this world..?

How can I go without saying to my parents that

I'm what I am ...  just because of you..?

How can I go without giving my friends thanks for

Helping me in need ...

I can see a person standing in the corner and
trying to hide his tears....

Oh.... he was once my best friend, but a small
misunderstanding made us part, and we both have a
strong enough ego to keep us disconnected.

I went there..... And offered him my hand,

"Dear friend.... I just want to say sorry for
everything, we are still best friends, please forgive me."

.. It seems he is not able to see my extended hand.

My goodness...... AM I REALLY DEAD?

I just sat down near ME; I was also feeling like crying...

"OH ALMIGHTY!!!! PLEASE JUST GIVE ME FEW MORE DAYS..."

I just wasn't to make my wife, my parents; my
friends realize that how much I love them.....

My wife entered the room, she looks beautiful.

"YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL" I shouted. She didn't hear my words.

"GOD!!!!" I screamed... a little more time please...I cried...

One more chance please... to hug my child,

to make my mom smile just once,

to feel my dad proud of me,

to say sorry to my friends,
for everything I have not given to them, and
thanks for still being in my life....

Then I looked up and cried!! I shouted.......
"GOD!!!! ONE MORE CHANCE PLEASE!!!!"………….
                       :

                       ;

                    
"You shouted in your sleep."

said my wife as she gently woke me up.  "Did you have a nightmare?"

I was sleeping.............Oh that was just a dream....!

My wife was there... she can hear me...!!

This is the happiest moment of my life...

I hugged her and whispered....

"YOU ARE THE MOST BEAUTIFUL AND CARING WIFE

IN THIS UNIVERSE..... I REALLY LOVE YOU, DEAR"

   I couldn't understand the reason of the smile on her face

with some tears in her eyes, still I'm happy....

            "THANK YOU GOD FOR THIS SECOND CHANCE."


SO, Now it's not late... Forget the egos,



 the Past... and Express love to others.......Be friendly...

Keep smiling...... forever....It is another chance for you ! !...

Monday, May 16, 2011

3rd year BA in english and communication Assignment

Course & Code: Romantic Age

Give a critique of Shelley’s A Defence of Poetry

A Defence of Poetry is an essay by the English poet Percy Bysshe Shelley, written in 1821 and first published posthumously in 1840 in Essays, Letters from Abroad, Translations and Fragments (1840) [1839]. It contains Shelley's famous claim that "poets are the unacknowledged legislators of the world".
It was written in response to his friend Thomas Love Peacock's article The Four Ages of Poetry which had been published in 1820. Shelley wrote to the publishers Charles and James Ollier (who were also his own publishers):

In A Defence of Poetry, Shelley argued that the invention of language reveals a human impulse to reproduce the rhythmic and ordered, so that harmony and unity are delighted in wherever they are found and incorporated, instinctively, into creative activities: ‘Every man in the infancy of art, observes an order which approximates more or less closely to that from which highest delight results...’ This ‘faculty of approximation’ enables the observer to experience the beautiful, by establishing a ‘relation between the highest pleasure and its causes’. Those who possess this faculty ‘in excess are poets’ and their task is to communicate the ‘pleasure’ of their experiences to the community. Shelley does not claim language is poetry on the grounds that language is the medium of poetry; rather he recognizes in the creation of language an adherence to the poetic precepts of order, harmony, unity, and a desire to express delight in the beautiful. Aesthetic admiration of ‘the true and the beautiful’ is provided with an important social aspect which extends beyond,
A man, to be greatly good, must imagine intensely and comprehensively; he must put himself in the place of another and of many others. The pains and pleasures of his species must become his own. The great instrument of moral good is the imagination; and poetry administers to the effect by acting upon the cause. Poetry enlarges the circumference of the imagination by replenishing it with thoughts of ever new delight, which have the power of attracting and assimilating to their own nature all other thoughts, and which form new intervals and interstices whose void forever craves fresh food. Poetry strengthens the faculty which is the organ of the moral nature of man, in the same manner as exercise strengthens a limb.Shelley's "Defence" is a response to Thomas Love Peacock's essay, "Four Ages of Poetry," in which Peacock satirically devalued the importance of poetry in the age of science and technology. Shelley believed that poetry--and, by extension, art in general--revealed the beauty and order of things in the universe, and that without the artist's imagination, mankind would fail to appreciate "the small things" in life. He also offered up his essay to fellow poets as a sort of validation, meaning, whatever "slings and arrows" they may suffer is not in vain, that their efforts actually mean something.

Thus "A Defense of Poetry" is a systematic argument designed to differentiate between the origins of poetry and prose writing. The portion of the prose work that is addressed in this paper outlines Shelley's beliefs on how poetry reveals, transforms, and influences human thought.

Course & Code: Victorian Age

Attempt a critical appreciation of the novel hard times by Charles Dickens.

Hard Times - For These Times (commonly known as Hard Times) is the tenth novel by Charles Dickens, first published in 1854. The book appraises English society and is aimed at highlighting the social and economic pressures of the times. The novel is unusual in that it did not contain illustrations; nor is it set in or around London (both usual in Dickens's novels). Instead the story is set in the fictitious Victorian industrial Coketown, a generic Northern English mill-town, not unlike Manchester, partially based upon 19th-century Preston.
Dickens's reasons for writing Hard Times were mostly monetary. Sales of his weekly periodical, Household Words, were low, and he hoped the inclusion of this novel in instalments would increase sales. Since publication it has received a mixed response from a diverse range of critics, such as F.R. Leavis, George Bernard Shaw, and Thomas Macaulay, mainly focusing on Dickens's treatment of trade unions and his post-Industrial Revolution pessimism regarding the divide between capitalistic mill owners and undervalued workers during the Victorian era.

        In Hard Times, Charles Dickens gives us a close-up look into what appears to be the ivory tower of the bourgeoisie of his day, yet these middle-class characters are viewed from a singular perspective, the perspective of those at the bottom of the social and economic system. Though Dickens’ characters tend to be well developed and presented with a thoroughly human quality, the stereotypical figure of arrogant and demanding Bounderby fails to accurately capture the motivations and attitudes of the typical successful businessman of the day and is an indication of the author’s political motives. Hard Times, rather than presenting a historically accurate picture of the extraordinary changes brought about by the industrial revolution, is a one-sided attack on the utilitarian value system of the middle 19th century based upon emotional blue-collar appeals for labor sympathy that are not uncommon in today’s corporate environment.
Charles Dickens is one of the most popular and beloved writers who ever lived. His novels and tales catered to a vast and intensely loyal audience. More than just an entertainer, Dickens used his enormous popularity to attack injustice and strengthen the sympathies of his readers for the poor and the helpless, for orphans and outcast persons.

Dickens’ father was eventually released and Dickens resumed his schooling. For the proud, sensitive boy, who had dreamed of becoming a distinguished gentleman, the whole experience had been a terrible, humiliating, lonely ordeal. It profoundly affected him, haunted his writing (most notably in the autobiographical David Copperfield), and colored his view of the world.

Dickens often spoke out on public affairs and became involved with a variety of causes such as prison reform and the abolition of the death penalty. In 1842 he visited America, and although sympathetic to the young republic, was forthright in criticizing its failings, particularly the evil of slavery. In England he lent his active support to a variety of philanthropic endeavors. The problem of the education of the poor, and of children particularly, engaged his attention. Along with its focus on the evils of the industrial system, education is a major theme of Hard Times.

Hard Times sold well, significantly boosting the circulation of the weekly magazine (founded and edited by Dickens himself), in which it first appeared. The critical reception was mixed. Dickens’ accounts of industrial life and his satirical treatment of political economists were attacked by critics with a stake in the debate; the popular journalist and adherent of laissez-faire economics Harriet Martineau, for example, found it “unlike life…master and man are as unlike life in England, at present, as Ogre and Tom Thumb.” But John Ruskin, the great Victorian art critic and sage, thought Hard Times the greatest of Dickens’ works, and wrote that it “should be studied with close and earnest care by persons interested in social questions.” Nearer to our own time, figures as different as George Bernard Shaw and Sigmund Freud have testified to its power. In his book The Great Tradition, the influential English critic F. R. Leavis asserted that Hard Times is “a masterpiece,” which (according to Leavis) unlike any of his other novels has the strength of a “completely serious work of art.”
Toward the end of his life, Dickens threw himself into a series of highly dramatic public readings of his works. While remunerative, these were emotionally draining and contributed to his declining health. He died in 1870. Universally mourned, he was buried in the Poet’s Corner of Westminster Abbey.

Hard Times Summary

Thomas Gradgrind, a citizen of the northern industrial town of Coketown, is a convinced Utilitarian: an enemy to Fancy and a worshiper of Fact. He is intent on having the pupils in his model school—who include his children, Tom and Louisa—crammed so full of knowledge as to leave no room for anything else.
Two other pupils of Gradgrind’s prove important to the story: the naturally affectionate Sissy Jupe, the daughter of a performer in Sleary’s Circus (a traveling troupe of clowns, jugglers, and horseback riders), and Bitzer, an emotionless, eerily pale boy who absorbs all of Gradgrind’s precepts. When Sissy’s father abandons her, Gradgrind takes her into his household, making her a companion to his ailing wife. Sissy turns out to be a faithful friend to Louisa and Tom; the calculating, cold-hearted Bitzer, her opposite, turns on his old mentor in the end.

When she comes of age, Louisa marries her father’s friend and ally Josiah Bounderby, a boastful, bullying Coketown manufacturer and banker, who claims, untruthfully, to be an entirely self-made man, abandoned by his mother at an early age and reared in the street. Louisa marries Bounderby despite their difference in age (he is some 30 years her senior) and not loving him in the slightest. She takes this Thomas Gradgrind, a citizen of the northern industrial town of Coketown, is a convinced Utilitarian: an enemy to Fancy and a worshiper of Fact. He is intent on having the pupils in his model school—who include his children, Tom and Louisa—crammed so full of knowledge as to leave no room for anything else.

Two other pupils of Gradgrind’s prove important to the story: the naturally affectionate Sissy Jupe, the daughter of a performer in Sleary’s Circus (a traveling troupe of clowns, jugglers, and horseback riders), and Bitzer, an emotionless, eerily pale boy who absorbs all..

Course & Code: Modern English Literature

Discuss the various types of drama of the twentieth century


The early twentieth century denoted the split between 'frocks and frills' drama and serious works, following in the footsteps of many other European countries. "In Britain the impact of these continental innovations was delayed by a conservative theatre establishment until the late 1950s and 1960s when they converged with the counter-cultural revolution to transform the nature of English language theatre." (Greenblatt 1844) Musical comedies and well-made plays were still a part of the repertoire, but the new direction was political, satirical, and rebellious. Common themes in the new early 20th Century drama were political, reflecting the unease or rebellion of the workers against the state. They explored common societal business practices (conditions of factories), new political ideologies (socialism), or the rise of a repressed sector of the population (women).(Chothia)

Types of Modern Drama

Realism


Realism, in theater, was meant to be a direct observation of human behavior. It began as a way to make theater more useful to society, a way to hold a mirror up to society. Because of this thrust towards the "real" playwrights started using more contemporary settings, backgrounds and characters. Where plays in the past had, for the most part, used mythological or stereotypical characters, now they involved the lower class, the poor, the rich; they involved all genders, classes and races. One of the main contributors to this style was Henrik Ibsen.

Social Realism

Social Realism began showing up in plays during the 1930s. This realism had a political conscience behind it because the world was in a depression. These plays painted a harsh picture of rural poverty. The drama began to aim at showing governments the penalties of unrestrained capitalism and the depressions that lax economies created. One of the main contributors to this style was G.B. Shaw.

Symbolism, Surrealism, and Expressionism

avant garde theatre - imagism, cubism, vorticism, futurism, symbolism, surrealism, Dada dramatic truth couldn't be found in the tangibleness of realistic drama, but in symbols, images, legends, myths, fantasies, dreams (Klaus)

Epic Theatre

Epic theater was created by Bertold Brecht who rejected realistic theatre. He found that such plays were too picture-perfect. Epic Theatre is based off of Greek Epic poetry. There are dramatic illusions such as "stark, harsh lighting, blank stages, placards announcing changes of scenes, bands playing music onstage, and long, discomfiting pauses" (Jacobus). Brecht believed that drama should be made within its audiences and he thought that Epic Theatre drama would reinforce the realities that people were facing rather than challenge them. Epic Theatre helped to preserve the social issues that they portrayed.

Absurdist Drama

Absurdist Drama, existentialist theatre which puts a direct perception of a mode of being above all abstract considerations; it is also essentially a poetic, a lyrical theatre, for the expression of intuitions of being is the field for lyrical poetry. poetry of situation, movement, & concrete imagery, not one of language last page, (Barnet)

Theatre of Cruelty

Theatre of Cruelty was motivated by an idea of Antonin Artaud. It argues the idea that theatre is a "representational medium." Theatre of Cruelty tries to bring current ideas and experiences to the audience through participation and "ritualistic theater experiments." Artaud thought that theatre should show presentation and representation equally. This type of theatre relies deeply on metaphors and rarely included a description of how it could be performed.

Drama was introduced to England from Europe by the Romans, and auditoriums were constructed across the country for this purpose. By the medieval period, the mummers' plays had developed, a form of early street theatre associated with the Morris dance, concentrating on themes such as Saint George and the Dragon and Robin Hood. These were folk tales re-telling old stories, and the actors travelled from town to town performing these for their audiences in return for money and hospitality. The medieval mystery plays and morality plays, which dealt with Christian themes, were performed at religious festivals.

Some of the important developments in modern drama are expressionism, epic theatre, symbolism, surrealism, and the theater of the absurd.

1. Expressionism: Expressionism in drama was concentrated in Germany in the early 20th century. Friedrich Carl Georg Kaiser (1878-1945) was the most famous expressionist dramatist. His popular plays include "From Morn to Midnight" and "The Burghers of Calais." The main feature of expressionism is a distortion of physical reality to highlight certain emotional effects and convey personal moods and feelings.

2. Epic Theater: The chief proponent and successful practitioner of this form of modern drama was the German dramatist Bertolt Brecht (1898-1956).  Its main feature was the use of the ancient epic convention of  choruses and projections as a means of commentary. "Mother Courage"(1939) is Brecht's most famous play.

3.Symbolism: The aim of symbolism was to capture absolute truth by indirect methods. Symbolism emphasized mysticism, and the life of dreams and fantasies. The most famous symbolist theater person was Maurice Polydore Marie Bernard, Count Maeterlinck (1862-1949). His most famous play is "The Blue Bird" (1908).

4. Surrealism: Wilhelm Albert Włodzimierz Apolinary Kostrowicki, (1880-1918) is the foremost surrealist playwright and his most successful play is 'The Breasts of Tiresias' (1903,1917).  Surrealism's main is to reveal the dynamics of the sub conscious and is characterized by fantastic imagery and juxtaposition of bizarre subject matter.

5. Theater of the Absurd: As the word 'absurd' indicates the dramas of the "Absurd" reveal the meaninglessness of modern life and depict man as a puppet controlled by some bizarre external force. Some of the important playwrights of this type of drama are Samuel Beckett and Harold Pinter. Beckett's "Waiting for Godot" (1948,1953) is one of most important plays of the twentieth century.

Course & Code: Phonetics and spoken English

Describe the consonant and vowel phonemes of English Language.


a consonant is a speech sound that is articulated with complete or partial closure of the vocal tract. Examples are [p], pronounced with the lips; [t], pronounced with the front of the tongue; [k], pronounced with the back of the tongue; [h], pronounced in the throat; [f] and [s], pronounced by forcing air through a narrow channel (fricatives); and [m] and [n], which have air flowing through the nose (nasals). Contrasting with consonants are vowels.

Consonants and vowels correspond to distinct parts of a syllable. All the letters in the alphabet are either consonants or vowels. A consonant is a speech sound in which the breath is at least partly obstructed, and any letter which represents this.[1] Consonants may come singly or in clusters, but must be connected to a vowel to form a syllable.
Consonants have friction when they are spoken, mostly using the position of the tongue against the lips, teeth and roof of the mouth. b and p are plosives, using the lips to produce a tiny sharp sound. Phonetics texts give more details, with diagrams. Consonants may be voiced[2] or unvoiced.[3] The th in the is voiced, but in breath is not.

    There are 21 consonant letters in English, for 24 consonant sounds in most English accents.[4]p242 Because of the history of the English language, there is no neat on-to-one relationship between letter and sound. th and ch each stand for a single sound, and x in fox stands for two sounds (ks). All these letters are consonants:

B, C, D, F, G, H, J, K, L, M, N, P, Q, R, S, T, V, W, X, (sometimes Y), and Z. "Y" is often used as a consonant, but it is sometimes used as a vowel. For example, in the word yellow, y is a consonant. But in the word happy, y is a vowel.

  The rest of the letters of the alphabet are called vowels. Vowels are underdone, for there are about 20 vowel sounds in most English accents.[4]p237 The vowels are:

A, E, I, O, U (and sometimes Y) In phonetics, a vowel is a sound in spoken language, such as English ah! [ɑː] or oh! [oʊ], pronounced with an open vocal tract so that there is no build-up of air pressure at any point above the glottis. This contrasts with consonants, such as English sh! [ʃː], where there is a constriction or closure at some point along the vocal tract. A vowel is also understood to be syllabic: an equivalent open but non-syllabic sound is called a semivowel.

Phoneme - A small unit of sound relating to the phonic approach to reading. The smallest unit of sound that a child learns and sounds out within a word. There are 44 phonemes.

Course & Code: Communication Skills

Define listening skills and explain how it facilitates communication

(1) Just decide to listen.

(2) Start with a deep breath to calm and focus yourself.

(3) You listen where you are looking.  Your eyes lead the way and tend to make you focus.

(4) Listen for the motivation or feelings going on behind the words.  Be sure to remember that when people talk, less than 10% of the meaning is conveyed by words.

Words convey a message.  The tone conveys the true meaning or a greater meaning.  At least 35% of meaning is given by the tone and over 50% is conveyed by body language.  The trap is being caught up in the words (the 10%) and missing the meaning of a message of which is conveyed non-verbally.  Also be absolutely aware that at this point in time, most people are not only rationally illiterate, they are profoundly so!  Only when you ask “the meanings” of a random selection of any of the words they had just spoken, would they realize they either do not know, or had a vague assumption; nor would they recognize any rational terms used; know what “a rational term is,” much less “the factor value” of any of the critical ten or less key rational terms.

(5) Make it easy for the other side by giving them your full attention.  Attention is your most powerful emotional signal to the other side.

(6) Be aware of gender, as conversation is like a dance, and men like to lead.  Men tend to be posturing, up or down, in relation to you and their conversations tend to be negotiations for status levels and somewhat toward who has the upper hand.
Women are more to seeing themselves as part of a network of connections and their conversations are often objective negotiations for closeness or support with their attitude more towards creating relationships.

(7) Your emotional attitudes, prejudices, memories of similar conversations, and past experiences are forever between you and your rational mind.  The greatest enemy to you holding the supreme position, which is rational listening, is the human species' emotional knee-jerk reactions.

To keep a relationship healthy, there has to be good communication. It doesn't matter if the relationship is with an intimate, casual or business partner. The best way to be a great communicator is to be a really good listener. This makes people feel respected as well as understood.

  Identification

        Listening skills are essential in the workplace, the family and the community at large. Careers in communications, management, planning, sales, and fund raising, to name a few, rely on good listening skills. Listening, however, is more than just being able to hear and understand what someone else says. Listening skills involve etiquette, asking for clarification, showing empathy and providing an appropriate response.

    Body Language

   Good listening skills include using body language that empowers the speaker. You should make eye contact with the speaker. In a large auditorium or in a classroom, this means keeping your eyes looking at the speaker, not down or gazing at some daydream. Keep your hands down, not folded across your chest. Sit up and look alert.

    Respect

        People who have good listening skills show respect to the speaker by not interrupting him while he is talking. Even if the speaker stutters or is slow to speak or select his words, being patient and restraining yourself from finishing his sentences is a mark of a good listener.

    Comprehension

        Good listening skills depend on good comprehension. Demonstrate that you understand by restating what you think you have heard. Then ask if you, in fact, did hear correctly. Ask questions that request specific clarification on points that you are unsure about. Be cognizant of the length of time that you speak, making sure not to dominate or usurp the conversation.

    Response

Good listening skills are measured by the response of the listener. First, the response should validate the speaker with etiquette and empathy. Next, it should show that the listener understands the message. When the message has been adequately delivered and received, the result should be an action or statement that demonstrates that there has been a transaction between the speaker and the listener.
Effective listening is almost certainly the most important communication skill, and essential to anyone serious about Self Improvement and Success.

Some people envy those who have the 'gift of the gab' and always seem to be the centre of attention. However, this does not mean that good talkers are good communicators; in fact they are often just the opposite.

When engaged in conversation, it is very easy to pay little attention to what the other person is actually saying. We can become easily distracted by countless other thoughts and things happening around us, or thinking about what we are going to say next.

Like most skills, we can learn to communicate and listen better if we really want to, and there are many Communication Experts available who can help. Despite what many people may think, good communication is not all about concentrating on getting across our own points of view and opinions. It has been said that we were given two ears and one mouth for good reason, and that when interacting with other people, we should spend at least twice as much time listening as we do talking.

The most basic - and important - communication skills are the ability to listen impartially, to try to absorb the essence of what the other person is saying, and to really understand their point of view. These are the skills that will make us better communicators, better friends and partners, and certainly help our overall happiness and success.

Listening skills have not been given much importance like other aspects of communication skills, but it is true that listening skills play a major role in the success of one's communication skills. Only a good listener can be a good speaker.

What is Hope

Hope is knowing that a positive outcome awaits.
Hope is not only expecting a dream to come true,
But also having a deep assurance
That it's within your reach.

Hope is saying you can.
Hope is knowing that you can improve
And that you always get better with practice.
Hope is knowing that you can achieve your goals
Through hard work and persistence.

Hope is looking to the future with joy
And having an expectation of
Better things to come.
Hope is the knowledge that life is everlasting,
And that miracles happen every day.

Hope is something that never abandons you.
Even when your life is filled with
Sadness and disappointment,
A spark remains inside to help you
Get through the rough times.

Hope is one of God's greatest gifts to you,
Because it's the magic that inspires you
To keep trying, learning, loving, and living.
 

Letting Go of Sorrow

 If I allow bitterness and resentment to fester inside,
it will make my relationships guarded and unsatisfying.

The more I close down to others,
the more I become a stranger to myself.
By letting go of sorrow and negativity,
 I can keep my nature open and loving.

Remaining open to life,
with its constant adventures and opportunities to grow,
is the only way to reach my full potential.

Thursday, May 12, 2011

My Loneliness makes me sick

Why we can feel a sense of loneliness even when we are surrounded by many people?

Tuesday, May 10, 2011

KINDNESS

Kindness is one of the most powerful tools available to you. Kindness can
Positively transform your world in a way that nothing else can. When your
Heart is filled with kindness, your thoughts and actions are driven by a
Positive, creative force. Instead of being needlessly distracted by anger,
Envy or despair, your eyes are more fully open to the many valuable
Possibilities.
Act with kindness toward others. You'll create an atmosphere of
Understanding and cooperation in which amazing things can be accomplished.
Be kind to yourself. You'll make it possible to clearly focus your
Considerable creative energy on achieving the highest and best of your
Dreams.
Choose to act with kindness, and you free yourself from the heavy burden of
Negativity. Persist in your kindness, and you rise to higher and higher
Levels of true, meaningful accomplishment.
Kindness transforms profoundly and spreads quickly. Let kindness freely flow
From you, and it will surely change your world...

Monday, May 9, 2011

3rd year B.A. English and communication , 2008

COMMUNICATION SKILLS May ] [ Time : 3 Hours Maximum : 100 Marks

Answer any FIVE questions.

1. (a) Explain the communication process.
(b) What are the triats of active listeners ?

2. (a) How do you receive a telephone call ?
(b) List out the factors that affect group communication.

3. (a) How do you conduct a meeting ?
(b) Give a short note on the use of Over-Head Projector.

4. (a) What are the types of reports ?
(b) How do you respond to a mail ?

5. (a) Write a note on the usage of comma.
(b) What is conjunction ? Mention its kinds with examples.

6. (a) What is kinetics ? Why is it important ?
(b) Explain : Memorandum.

7. (a) List out the factors that affect group effectiveness.
(b) Explain : Seminar and Symposium.

8. (a) Write about mobile phone manners.
(b) What is mechanics ?

SECTION  B (3 × 20 = 60)


9. (a) How do you overcome the common barriers to effective communication ?  Explain in detail.
                         
                                            (OR)

(b) What are the advantages and disadvantages of group communication ?

10. (a) How do you arrange a meeting ? Bring out the points in logical order.
                                   
                                           (OR)

(b) How do you present statistical and nonstatistical information effectively ?

11. (a) What are the details to be mentioned while applying for a job ?

                                          (OR)

(b) What is report writing ? Write a report on your college annual day function.


12. (a) Write the problems with negatives with suitable examples.

                                        (OR)

(b) How do you overcome the problems of English spelling and grammar ?

13. (a) What are the traits of a leader in a group ?

                                      (OR)

(b) What are the physical process of reading ?

3rd year BA in english and communication

Rounded Rectangle: UG–419 BEGC–35

B.A. DEGREE EXAMINATION — JUNE, 2010.

Third Year

English and Communication

COMMUNICATION SKILLS

Time : 3 hours                                   Maximum marks : 75

1.         Answer any FIVE of the following in about

50 words each :                                         (5 ´ 2 = 10)

             (a)     List the various elements of effective communication.

             (b)     What are the various aspects of listening?

             (c)     What is assertiveness in the context of speaking?

             (d)     What is Group Discussion?

             (e)     Define Body Language.

             (f)      Define scanning.

             (g)     What is meant by non-verbal communication?

             (h)     Explain the significance of gesture and facial expression.

             (i)      What is special communication?

             (j)      What is Meaty Sandwich?

2.         Write short notes on any THREE of the following :

                                                                             (3 ´ 5 = 15)

             (a)     List the habits that hinder reading growth.

             (b)     Explain role play of group discussion.

             (c)     Discuss about difficult calls.

             (d)     List the different types of structure a speaker can adopt for his or her presentation.

             (e)     List the major areas that need special attention while reviewing a piece of writing.

3.         Answer any TWO in 200 words :         (2 ´ 10 = 20)

             (a)     Explain the uniqueness of presentation.

             (b)     What are the five elements in the beginning component of presentation?

             (c)     How can you keep a telephone call controlled?

             (d)     What are the steps to be followed in order to develop a logical argument?

4.         Answer any TWO in 300 words :         (2 ´ 15 = 30)

             (a)     Name the seven barriers to communication.

             (b)     How should we respond to a threatening feed back?

             (c)     What are the various factors that can help

                   one to modulate and gain correct intonation,

                   inflection and syllable stress?

             (d)     Discuss about transferring calls.

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B.A. DEGREE EXAMINATION
JUNE 2010.

Third Year

English and Communication

MODERN ENGLISH LITERATURE

Time : 3 hours                                  Maximum  marks : 75

I.       Answer any FIVE of the following in about

30 words each :                                         (5 ´ 2 = 10)

1.         Name the most popular war poets.

2.         Write two lines about the single poems of

T.S. Eliot.

3.         Some important works of W.B. Yeats.

4.         What are the major social  concern of Huxley?

5.         What are the recurrent themes in L.P. Hartley’s novels and short stories?

6.         Who all had faith in superstitions according to A.G. Gardiner?

7.         Name some of the practitioner of Absurd Drama.

8.         Explain the term Naturalistic drama.

9.         Write a short note on Graham Greene.

10.       Give your impression on Godbole.

II.      Write short note on any THREE of the following in about 100 words each :                            (3 ´ 5 = 15)

11.       Analyse the typical characteristics of

the ‘Unknown Citizen’ of W.H. Auden.

12.       Explain Hartley’s view on life and death.

13.       Portray, the characters in ‘Waiting for Godot’.

14.       Explain the term Angry young man and its characteristics.

15.       Explain the features of 20th century novels.

III.    Answer any TWO of the following in about

200 words each :                                                                      (2 ´ 10 = 20)

16.       State the history behind the poem ‘Easter 1916’.

17.       ‘The Unknown Citizen’ as a satire.

18.       Outline the characteristics of Chesterton as an essayist.

19.       ‘The Invisible Man’ is story of ‘Psychological terror’ analyse.

IV.     Answer any TWO of the following in about

300 words each :                                     (2 ´ 15 = 30)

20.       Explain the salient features of ‘Georgian Poetry’ and Writers.

21.       Consider ‘Strange Meeting’ as a poem of visionary dream.

22.       Post-war England reflected in the play ‘Look Back in Anger’.

23.       Analyse E.M. Foster’s impression of India as revealed in ‘A Passage to India’.

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B.A. DEGREE EXAMINATION – JUNE 2010.

Third Year

English and Communication

PHONETICS AND SPOKEN ENGLISH

Time : 3 hours                                                                                                        Maximum  marks : 75                      

1.         Explain any TWO of the following in about 50 words each:                                             (2 × 5 = 10)

             (a)     What          is a phoneme?

             A phoneme is the smallest contrastive unit in the sound system of a language.

1.         Phonologists have differing views of the phoneme. Following are the two major views considered here:

a.In the American structuralist tradition, a phoneme is defined according to its allophones and environments.

b.In the generative tradition, a phoneme is defined as a set of distinctive features.

             (b)     Define allophone.
Sounds that are merely phonetic variants of the same phoneme are allophones. An allophone is a phonetic variant of a phoneme in a particular language.

             (c)     What          is called as phonetic transcription?

2.         What         is a phoneme

A phoneme is the smallest contrastive unit in the sound system of a language.

3.         Discussion

Phonetic transcription (or phonetic notation) is the visual representation of speech sounds (or phones). The most common type of phonetic transcription uses a phonetic alphabet, e.g., the International Phonetic Alphabet.  

2.         Write down the phonetic transcription for any FIVE of the following words:              (5 × 2 =10)

             (a)     About                      (b)     Study

             (c)     Letter                     (d)    Sorry                        

             (e)     Civilize                   (f)     Episode

             (g)     Develop                  (h)    Cotton                        

             (i)      Sudden                   (j)      settle.

3.         (a)     Give three term labels for the following :

                                                                              (5 × 2 =10)

                      (i)      [z]                   (ii)    [h]

                      (iii)   [l]                   (iv)   [k]

                      (v)     [v]

             (b)     Transcribe the following and give the syllable division                              (5 × 2 =10)

                      (i)      Photographic

                      (ii)    Neurology

                      (iii)   Lexicographer

                      (iv)    Tantalizing 

                      (v)     Electricity.

4.         Put a stress mark in front of the stressed syllable(s) in each :                            ( 1 × 5 = 5)

             (a)     I’ll give that to her.

             (b)     Which of these do you like?

             (c)     You must apologize to them.

             (d)     Give them an answer as soon as possible.

             (e)     I’m absolutely sure it was on the table.

5.         Transcribe any THREE of the following passages :        

                                                                           (3 × 10 = 30)

             (a)     Man :         Is that the booking office at Secunderabad Railway station?

                      Girl :                       Yes, sir. What can I do for you?

                      Man :         I want to book three first class tickets to Delhi by the Andhra Pradesh Express on the 31st of October. Could you do it for me?

                      Girl :                       I’m sorry to sound so unhelpful; sir, but we don’t book passenger tickets on the telephone. You have to send someone here and buy the tickets.

                      Man :         Oh bother! You see I’m an extremely busy man and I can’t waste my time on such trifles as booking railway tickets.

                      Girl :                       I can see your point sir, but I’m afraid I can’t help you. We have our regulations, you know,

                      Man :         Why can’t one book tickets on the phone, pray?

                      Girl :                       What about the fares, sir? You have to pay the fares and I’m sure you can’t do that over the telephone.

                      Man :         I realize that, but I’m sure there’s a way out.

                      Girl :                       And what is it, sir?

                      Man :         Tell the Telephone Department about this and ask them to include the fares in my telephone bill for this quarter.

                      Girl :                       That’s just not possible, sir. The Telephone Department is an entirely different department sir. We don’t have anything to do with them.

                      Man :         Oh why can’t people be more helpful?

             (b)     Ram :         Is that Hyderabad 71 307?

                      Raj :           No. I’m afraid not. It is 71407.

                      Ram :         Oh dear. Wrong number again. You see this is the tenth time I’m dialing that number and every time I get a different number.

                      Raj :           Why don’t you try through Assistance?

                      Ram :         Assistance? Who’ll assist me?

                      Raj :           You dial 299 and when someone answers, ask him or her to get you 71307.

                      Ram :         Thanks, my dear sir. I wasn’t aware of such a possibility.

                      Raj :            Incidentally, your voice is very familiar. Wait a minute, even the number you mentioned seems familiar. I’m sure I’ve come across that number sometime, somewhere. Did you say 71307?

                      Ram :         I did. Coming to think of it, even your voice seems familiar to my ears. You see I’ve a friend called Raj.

                      Raj :           Did you say Raj? Well my name is Raj.

                      Ram :         The Raj I want to talk to is Manager of the Princess Street Branch of the Bank of Baroda.

                      Raj :           Hey! I am the Manager you’re referring to hold on a minute. My telephone number was 71307 till about a fortnight ago. The telephone Department changed my number recently. Aren’t you Ram of the L.I.C.? Well, well, well. How are you, old boy?

             (c)     You’re a gardener, aren’t you? Do you know anything about Busy Lizzies?

                      About what? Busy Lizzies? What on earth are they?

                      Oh, I thought you’d know. They’re house-plants I’ve just been given one, by my sister, and I want to know how look after it.

                      I’m afraid I don’t know how much about house-plants; but I’ve got a book somewhere that might help. Let’s see. Ah, yes, here it is.

                      ‘The Care of House-plants’. Mm, that looks useful.

                      Do you happen to know the Latin name of it? I’m afraid I don’t. Busy Lizzzie’s the only name I’ve heard.

                      What does it look like?

                      Well, it’s got a rather watery-looking stem, very pale green, and fairly small pink flowers.

                      How many petals?

                      Good gracious, I’ve never counted them. Four of five, I suppose.

                      They’re rather like wild rose petals.

             (d)     Here’s a nice shirt; we sell a lot of this one.

                      Do you, now? Yes, it’s the sort of style I want, but I asked for grey. This is purple

                      Purple, sir? Surely not. It’s what we call silver-blue.

                      Well, it looks purple to me. Anyway, I’d like something a little less bright, more like the one

                      I’m wearing.

                      Oh, that sort of grey. I haven’t seen that for years.

                      I bought it here, six months ago.

                      Did you really, sir? It must have been old stock.

                      Well, see if you’ve still got any left, will you?

                      Ah, yes, here we are. I’m sorry about the dust, sir.

                      Can I lend you a handkerchief?

                      No, thank you, I’ll survive. Yes, that looks better. Have you another one like it?

                      I’m afraid not, sir. It’s probably the last in the country.

                      Oh, all right, I’ll take it. How much is it?

                      Twelve pounds, sir. It was a very good shirt in its time.

                      I should think so, twelve pounds. Can I pay by cheque?

                      Certainly, sir. You have a cheque card?

                      Yes, I have

                      Any would you just put your name and address on the back?

                      I can never understand that. If the cheque was no good, I’d put a false name and address,

                      wouldn’t you?

                      You’re joking, sir, of course. I naturally assume your cheque is good.

                      Very trusting of you. It is, as a matter of fact.

                      Is there anything else you need, sir? Ties, socks, vests?

                      I don’t think so, thank you. Good morning.

                      Good day, sir.

             

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B.A. DEGREE EXAMINATION —
JUNE, 2010.

Third Year

English and Communication

ROMANTIC AGE

Time : 3 hours                                   Maximum marks : 75

I.       Answer any FIVE of the following in about

30 words each.                                          (5 ´ 2 = 10)

1.         Wordsworth is known as a nature poet – justify.

2.         Analyse the poem ‘‘Ancient Mariner’’.

3.         Give an appreciation of the poem ‘‘Ode on a Grecian urn”..

4.         Summarise the poem ‘‘ode to the west wind’’

5.         Give an account of poetry and its nature as portrayed by Shelley in his ‘‘A Defence of poetry’’.

6.         Briefly discuss the play ‘‘She stoops to conquer” as an anti-sentimental comedy.

7.         Discuss IVAN HOE as a historical novel.

8.         Describe the satirital element in the novel ‘‘Emma’’.

9.         Discuss the settings in the noval Frankenstein.

10.       Comment on the letters in the novel Frankenstein.

II.      Write short notes on any THREE of the following in about 100 words each.                (3 ´ 5 = 15)

11.       ‘‘Michael’’ as a pastoral poem.

12.       Coleridge’s Romantic poems.

13.       The salient features of ‘‘A Defence of Poetry’’.

14.       Character of Tony Lumpkin.

15.       Critical appreciation of the novel IVAN HOE.

III.    Write short notes on any TWO of the following. 

                                                                  (2 ´ 10 = 20)

16.       Discuss the theme of friendship in the novel. Frankenstein.

17.       Sketch the character of Hasting.

18.       Discuss the functions of poetic faculty as given by Shelley.

19.       Give the summary of the poem ‘‘Ode to Autumn by Keats”.

IV.     Write short notes on any TWO of the following. 

(2 ´ 15 = 30)

20.       Write a summary of the novel IVAN HOE.

21.       Give a critical analysis of the play ‘‘she stoops to conquer”.

22.       Give a summary of ‘‘A defence of poetry”.

23.       Compare Wordsworth and Coleridge’s poems.

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B.A. DEGREE EXAMINATION –
JUNE 2010.

Third Year

English and Communication

VICTORIAN AGE

Time : 3 hours                                  Maximum  marks : 75

I.       Answer any FIVE of the following in about

30 words each :                                         (5 ´ 2 = 10)

1.         Oxford movement.

2.         Chartist movement.

3.         Pre-Raphaelite poetry.

4.         Utilitarianism.

5.         Bibliomaniac.

6.         Aesthetic movement.

7.         Comedy of manners.

8.         Laissez-farie.

9.         Practorika.

10.       Saints of poetry.

II.       Write short notes on any THREE of the following in about 100 words each :                         (3 ´ 5 = 15)

11.       Discuss Browning's "My Last Duchess" as a dramatic monologue.

12.       Evaluate D.G. Rossetti as a pre-Raphaelite poet with special reference to "The Blessed Damozel".

13.       Describe Ruskin as a critic.

14.       Discuss Hero as a poet.

15.       Sketch the character of Algernon Moncriell.

III.      Answer any TWO of the following in about

200 words each :                                    (2 ´ 10 = 20)

16.       What picture of the Duke of Ferrara do you get from study of Browning's "My Last Duchess"?

17.       Discuss "The Importance of Being Earnest" as a golden example of the drawing room comedy.

18.       Comment on Shaw's anti-romantic attitude as revealed in "Pygmalion".

19.       Write an essay on Hardy's tragic vision as revealed in his "Tess of the D'Ubervilles".

IV.    Answer any TWO of the following in about
300 words each :                                     (2 ´ 15 = 30)

20.       What way does "The Importance of Being Earnest" portray the social life of the time?

21.       Shaw's plays can be read as literature-discuss with respect to "Pygmalion".

22.       What does Hard Times Symbolize in the novel?

23.       Discuss how the secrets are revealed in "The Woman in White" that leads to a happy ending.

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How to avoid fight with Husband

It can be difficult for people to get their point across without hurting one another in the process.


Stay calm & Keep a steady low tone. The energy you give off is usually picked up on by the other person; if you are calm they sense you mean no harm and relax more. Even if you get emotional, try to keep your dignity and dont lash out unexpectedly. Also consider your tone of voice; try to keep a steady, low tone and volume, not fluctuating to much in speed and sound. Try to sound as relaxed as possible and avoid high-pitched sounds. Also consider your body language: have a good firm posture that makes your feel powerful but not aggressive.

Dont insult your husband. Avoid to, in any way, say something that might be taken as an insult. When people are angry they are much more sensitive and will take even the smallest comment as an insult.

Express that you are willing to listen to your husband and respect him. Even though you might not agree with what the other person is saying you need to remember that they might feel just as strongly about their views as you do about yours.

Be reasonable. The outcome of the argument might not be exactly what you wanted, but never expect to get everything you want.

Dont let it last too long, the argument degrades if it’s held out.

Allow each person to speak and make their point.

Set healthy boundaries. If the person with whom you are arguing is angry, obnoxious or verbally abusive, should you really be interacting with them? It may be better to walk away.

If the argument is with a clerk, salesperson, etc. ask to speak with their supervisor. If a supervisor isnt immediately available, get a phone number.

Make changes

 Starting today, tell yourself that you are going to do something, however small, a little differently. Perhaps you can be more friendly to the people you work with. Maybe it's not too late to overcome your fear of asking others to help you, or for their advice whoever you are, whatever you do, there is always something you can do a little differently.

 You may find that you love the tiny changes you make and that you can open exciting new doors by making relatively small adjustments. If you're okay with the changes, you might want to try some other changes as well.

Real Gentleness

Real gentleness in a person is a great power.
The power that sees, understands, but never interferes.
Like the branch of the tree,
Just touching the earth but never taking root in it.
Never to take root in someone elses mind
But to help, thats gentleness.

Friday, May 6, 2011

B.A. DEGREE EXAMINATION – JUNE 2010.

Third Year

English and Communication

PHONETICS AND SPOKEN ENGLISH

Time : 3 hours    Maximum  marks : 75    
                 
1.    Explain any TWO of the following in about 50 words each:                (2 × 5 = 10)

    (a)    What     is a phoneme?

    A phoneme is the smallest contrastive unit in the sound system of a language.

1.    Phonologists have differing views of the phoneme. Following are the two major views considered here:
a.In the American structuralist tradition, a phoneme is defined according to its allophones and environments.
b.In the generative tradition, a phoneme is defined as a set of distinctive features.

    (b)    Define allophone.

Sounds that are merely phonetic variants of the same phoneme are allophones. An allophone is a phonetic variant of a phoneme in a particular language.

    (c)    What     is called as phonetic transcription?

2.    What     is a phoneme

A phoneme is the smallest contrastive unit in the sound system of a language.

3.    Discussion

Phonetic transcription (or phonetic notation) is the visual representation of speech sounds (or phones). The most common type of phonetic transcription uses a phonetic alphabet, e.g., the International Phonetic Alphabet.   

2.    Write down the phonetic transcription for any FIVE of the following words:        (5 × 2 =10)

    (a)    About         (b)    Study
    (c)    Letter          (d)    Sorry   
    (e)    Civilize        (f)    Episode
    (g)    Develop        (h)    Cotton     
    (i)    Sudden        (j)    settle.

3.    (a)    Give three term labels for the following : (5 × 2 =10)
         (i)    [z]        (ii)    [h]
         (iii)    [l]        (iv)    [k]
          (v)    [v]

    (b)    Transcribe the following and give the syllable division            (5 × 2 =10)
         (i)    Photographic
          (ii)    Neurology
          (iii)    Lexicographer
          (iv)    Tantalizing   
         (v)    Electricity.

4.    Put a stress mark in front of the stressed syllable(s) in each :            ( 1 × 5 = 5)
    (a)    I’ll give that to her.
    (b)    Which of these do you like?
    (c)    You must apologize to them.
    (d)    Give them an answer as soon as possible.
    (e)    I’m absolutely sure it was on the table.

5.    Transcribe any THREE of the following passages :    (3 × 10 = 30)

    (a)    Man :    Is that the booking office at Secunderabad Railway station?
         Girl :        Yes, sir. What can I do for you?

         Man :    I want to book three first class tickets to Delhi by the Andhra Pradesh Express on the 31st of October. Could you do it for me?
         Girl :        I’m sorry to sound so unhelpful; sir, but we don’t book passenger tickets on the telephone. You have to send someone here and buy the tickets.
         Man :    Oh bother! You see I’m an extremely busy man and I can’t waste my time on such trifles as booking railway tickets.
         Girl :        I can see your point sir, but I’m afraid I can’t help you. We have our regulations, you know,
         Man :    Why can’t one book tickets on the phone, pray?
         Girl :        What about the fares, sir? You have to pay the fares and I’m sure you can’t do that over the telephone.
         Man :    I realize that, but I’m sure there’s a way out.
         Girl :        And what is it, sir?
         Man :    Tell the Telephone Department about this and ask them to include the fares in my telephone bill for this quarter.
         Girl :        That’s just not possible, sir. The Telephone Department is an entirely different department sir. We don’t have anything to do with them.
         Man :    Oh why can’t people be more helpful?

    (b)    Ram :    Is that Hyderabad 71 307?
         Raj :        No. I’m afraid not. It is 71407.
         Ram :    Oh dear. Wrong number again. You see this is the tenth time I’m dialing that number and every time I get a different number.
         Raj :        Why don’t you try through Assistance?
         Ram :    Assistance? Who’ll assist me?
         Raj :        You dial 299 and when someone answers, ask him or her to get you 71307.
         Ram :    Thanks, my dear sir. I wasn’t aware of such a possibility.
         Raj :        Incidentally, your voice is very familiar. Wait a minute, even the number you mentioned seems familiar. I’m sure I’ve come across that number sometime, somewhere. Did you say 71307?
         Ram :    I did. Coming to think of it, even your voice seems familiar to my ears. You see I’ve a friend called Raj.
         Raj :        Did you say Raj? Well my name is Raj.
         Ram :    The Raj I want to talk to is Manager of the Princess Street Branch of the Bank of Baroda.
         Raj :        Hey! I am the Manager you’re referring to hold on a minute. My telephone number was 71307 till about a fortnight ago. The telephone Department changed my number recently. Aren’t you Ram of the L.I.C.? Well, well, well. How are you, old boy?

    (c)    You’re a gardener, aren’t you? Do you know anything about Busy Lizzies?

         About what? Busy Lizzies? What on earth are they?
         Oh, I thought you’d know. They’re house-plants I’ve just been given one, by my sister, and I want to know how look after it.
         I’m afraid I don’t know how much about house-plants; but I’ve got a book somewhere that might help. Let’s see. Ah, yes, here it is.
         ‘The Care of House-plants’. Mm, that looks useful.
         Do you happen to know the Latin name of it? I’m afraid I don’t. Busy Lizzzie’s the only name I’ve heard.
         What does it look like?
         Well, it’s got a rather watery-looking stem, very pale green, and fairly small pink flowers.
         How many petals?
         Good gracious, I’ve never counted them. Four of five, I suppose.
         They’re rather like wild rose petals.

    (d)    Here’s a nice shirt; we sell a lot of this one.
         Do you, now? Yes, it’s the sort of style I want, but I asked for grey. This is purple
         Purple, sir? Surely not. It’s what we call silver-blue.
         Well, it looks purple to me. Anyway, I’d like something a little less bright, more like the one
         I’m wearing.
         Oh, that sort of grey. I haven’t seen that for years.
         I bought it here, six months ago.
         Did you really, sir? It must have been old stock.
         Well, see if you’ve still got any left, will you?
         Ah, yes, here we are. I’m sorry about the dust, sir.
         Can I lend you a handkerchief?
         No, thank you, I’ll survive. Yes, that looks better. Have you another one like it?
         I’m afraid not, sir. It’s probably the last in the country.
         Oh, all right, I’ll take it. How much is it?
         Twelve pounds, sir. It was a very good shirt in its time.
         I should think so, twelve pounds. Can I pay by cheque?
         Certainly, sir. You have a cheque card?
         Yes, I have
         Any would you just put your name and address on the back?
         I can never understand that. If the cheque was no good, I’d put a false name and address,
         wouldn’t you?
         You’re joking, sir, of course. I naturally assume your cheque is good.
         Very trusting of you. It is, as a matter of fact.
         Is there anything else you need, sir? Ties, socks, vests?
         I don’t think so, thank you. Good morning.
         Good day, sir.
   
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B.A. DEGREE EXAMINATION — JUNE, 2010. Third Year

English and Communication

COMMUNICATION SKILLS

Time : 3 hours    Maximum marks : 75

1.    Answer any FIVE of the following in about
50 words each :               
    (a)    List the various elements of effective communication.
    (b)    What are the various aspects of listening?
    (c)    What is assertiveness in the context of speaking?
    (d)    What is Group Discussion?
    (e)    Define Body Language.
    (f)    Define scanning.
    (g)    What is meant by non-verbal communication?
    (h)    Explain the significance of gesture and facial expression.
    (i)    What is special communication?
    (j)    What is Meaty Sandwich?

2.    Write short notes on any THREE of the following :
                           
    (a)    List the habits that hinder reading growth.
    (b)    Explain role play of group discussion.
    (c)    Discuss about difficult calls.
    (d)    List the different types of structure a speaker can adopt for his or her presentation.
    (e)    List the major areas that need special attention while reviewing a piece of writing.

3.    Answer any TWO in 200 words :   

    (a)    Explain the uniqueness of presentation.
    (b)    What are the five elements in the beginning component of presentation?
    (c)    How can you keep a telephone call controlled?
    (d)    What are the steps to be followed in order to develop a logical argument?

4.    Answer any TWO in 300 words :   

    (a)    Name the seven barriers to communication.
    Physical barriers, Perceptual barriers, Emotional barriers, Cultural barriers, Language barriers, Gender barriers, Interpersonal barriers

(b)    How should we respond to a threatening feed back?

    (c)    What are the various factors that can help
        one to modulate and gain correct intonation,
        inflection and syllable stress?

    (d)    Discuss about transferring calls.
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