There are many changes come across in life, Marriage is making us see the change more clearly. Before marriage couples are usually careful about being on their best behavior to impress one another. I agree that we should learn to accept both the weaknesses and strength but it doesn’t mean we should always compromise for everything.
Why commitments and promises made before marriage are not kept after marriage?
The main problem of couples is “their thinking is different”. Marriages are based on empathy, responsibility, commitment, love & concern. Marriage is responsibility and Love is freedom.
After Marriage we become granted to one another and there will very less fear of losing one another and we slowing start ignorance, carelessness, and giving less importance.
There is a saying “The importance of a thing or a person is realized before gaining them and after losing them.
Imagine what happens to you when you come to know your husband is not your dream boy about whom you have dreamed from age of sixteen.
You will become a bird with open cage sacred to fly away. You feel the only option left to you is “compromise”, is that true?
Life does not come with a guarantee card then why does it come with such a heavy "PRICE TAG" attached to it, we find women struggle in life at every turn and men get to enjoy the freedom same as before.....women usually are part of the daily trivial that life has to offer and still men are the self proclaimed hard workers and the most affected and the ones who pay the heaviest price are the women who juggle between home and work, they responsibility is far more than the male of the house.
Why commitments and promises made before marriage are not kept after marriage?
The main problem of couples is “their thinking is different”. Marriages are based on empathy, responsibility, commitment, love & concern. Marriage is responsibility and Love is freedom.
After Marriage we become granted to one another and there will very less fear of losing one another and we slowing start ignorance, carelessness, and giving less importance.
There is a saying “The importance of a thing or a person is realized before gaining them and after losing them.
Imagine what happens to you when you come to know your husband is not your dream boy about whom you have dreamed from age of sixteen.
You will become a bird with open cage sacred to fly away. You feel the only option left to you is “compromise”, is that true?
Life does not come with a guarantee card then why does it come with such a heavy "PRICE TAG" attached to it, we find women struggle in life at every turn and men get to enjoy the freedom same as before.....women usually are part of the daily trivial that life has to offer and still men are the self proclaimed hard workers and the most affected and the ones who pay the heaviest price are the women who juggle between home and work, they responsibility is far more than the male of the house.
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