Monday, January 9, 2012
Life can begin at 60, it is all in your hands!
Many people feel unhappy, health-wise and security-wise, after 60 years of age, owing to the diminishing importance given to them and their opinions. But, it need not be so, if only we understand the basic principles of life and follow them scrupulously. Here are ten mantras to age gracefully and make life after retirement pleasant.
1. Never say I am aged' : There are three ages, chronological,biological, and psychological. The first is calculated based on our date of birth; the second is determined by the health conditions; the third is how old we feel we are. While we don't have control over the first, we can take care of our health with good diet, exercise and a cheerful attitude. A positive attitude and optimistic thinking can reverse the third age.
2. Health is wealth: If you really love your kith and kin, taking care of your health should be your priority. Thus, you will not be a burden to them. Have an annual health check-up and take the prescribed medicines regularly. Do take health insurance coverage.
3. Money is important: Money is essential for meeting the basic necessities of life, keeping good health and earning family respect and security. Don't spend beyond your means even for your children. You have lived for them all through and it is time you enjoyed a harmonious life with your spouse. If your children are grateful and they take care of you, you are blessed. But, never take it for granted.
4. Relaxation and recreation: The most relaxing and recreating forces are a healthy religious attitude, good sleep, music and laughter. Have faith in God, learn to sleep well, love good music and see the funny side of life.
5. Time is precious: It is almost like holding a horses' reins. When they are in your hands, you can control them. Imagine that everyday you are born again. Yesterday is a cancelled cheque. Tomorrow is a promissory note. Today is ready cash - use it profitably. Live this moment; live it fully, now, in the present time.
6. Change is the only permanent thing: We should accept change - it is inevitable. The only way to make sense out of change is to join in the dance. Change has brought about many pleasant things. We should be happy that our children are blessed.
7. Enlightened selfishness: All of us are basically selfish. Whatever we do, we expect something in return. We should definitely be grateful to those who stood by us. But, our focus should be on the internal satisfaction and the happiness we derive by doing good for others, without expecting anything in return. Perform a random act of kindness daily.
8. Forget and forgive: Don't be bothered too much about others' mistakes. We are not spiritual enough to show our other cheek when we are slapped in one. But for the sake of our own health and happiness, let us forgive and forget them. Otherwise, we will be only increasing our blood pressure.
9. Everything has a purpose: Take life as it comes. Accept yourself as you are and also accept others for what they are. Everybody is unique and is right in his own way.
10. Overcome the fear of death: We all know that one day we have to leave this world. Still we are afraid of death. We think that our spouse and children will be unable to withstand our loss. But the truth is no one is going to die for you; they may be depressed for some time. Time heals everything and they will go on.
1. Never say I am aged' : There are three ages, chronological,biological, and psychological. The first is calculated based on our date of birth; the second is determined by the health conditions; the third is how old we feel we are. While we don't have control over the first, we can take care of our health with good diet, exercise and a cheerful attitude. A positive attitude and optimistic thinking can reverse the third age.
2. Health is wealth: If you really love your kith and kin, taking care of your health should be your priority. Thus, you will not be a burden to them. Have an annual health check-up and take the prescribed medicines regularly. Do take health insurance coverage.
3. Money is important: Money is essential for meeting the basic necessities of life, keeping good health and earning family respect and security. Don't spend beyond your means even for your children. You have lived for them all through and it is time you enjoyed a harmonious life with your spouse. If your children are grateful and they take care of you, you are blessed. But, never take it for granted.
4. Relaxation and recreation: The most relaxing and recreating forces are a healthy religious attitude, good sleep, music and laughter. Have faith in God, learn to sleep well, love good music and see the funny side of life.
5. Time is precious: It is almost like holding a horses' reins. When they are in your hands, you can control them. Imagine that everyday you are born again. Yesterday is a cancelled cheque. Tomorrow is a promissory note. Today is ready cash - use it profitably. Live this moment; live it fully, now, in the present time.
6. Change is the only permanent thing: We should accept change - it is inevitable. The only way to make sense out of change is to join in the dance. Change has brought about many pleasant things. We should be happy that our children are blessed.
7. Enlightened selfishness: All of us are basically selfish. Whatever we do, we expect something in return. We should definitely be grateful to those who stood by us. But, our focus should be on the internal satisfaction and the happiness we derive by doing good for others, without expecting anything in return. Perform a random act of kindness daily.
8. Forget and forgive: Don't be bothered too much about others' mistakes. We are not spiritual enough to show our other cheek when we are slapped in one. But for the sake of our own health and happiness, let us forgive and forget them. Otherwise, we will be only increasing our blood pressure.
9. Everything has a purpose: Take life as it comes. Accept yourself as you are and also accept others for what they are. Everybody is unique and is right in his own way.
10. Overcome the fear of death: We all know that one day we have to leave this world. Still we are afraid of death. We think that our spouse and children will be unable to withstand our loss. But the truth is no one is going to die for you; they may be depressed for some time. Time heals everything and they will go on.
30 Habits that Will Change your Life
Especially if you don't do much movement while working, it's essential that you get some daily exercise. 30 minutes every day are the minimum recommended for optimal health.
Eat breakfast every day. Breakfast is the more important meal of the day, yet so many people skip it. Personally, I like to eat a couple of toasts in the morning along with a fruit beverage.
Sleep 8 hours. Sleep deprivation is never a good idea. You may think that you are gaining time by sleeping less, when in reality you are only gaining stress and tiredness. 8 hours are a good number of hours for most people, along with an optional 20 minutes nap after lunch.
Avoid snacking between meals. Snacking between meals is the best way to gain weight. If you are hungry, eat something concrete. Otherwise don't. Update: for clarification, I mean don't eat junk food between meals, but eating real food it's ok.
Eat five portions of fruits and vegetables every day. Our body and brain loves getting vegetables and fruit, so I highly recommend eating as much of them as possible. Five portions is the dose that's usually recommended by many health associations.
Eat fish. Fish is rich of omega 3 and other healthy elements. At least one meal per week of fish should be enough for getting all these nutrients.
Drink one glass of water when you wake up. When you wake up, your body is dehydrated and needs liquid. Make the habit of drinking one glass of water after you wake up in the morning. Also, drink more during the day.
Avoid soda. Soda is often one of the most unhealthy beverage you can find. Limit your consumption of soda as much as possible and you're body will be grateful for that.
Keep your body clean. I don't advise spending your day in front of the mirror, but a minimum of personal care does never hurt.
If you smoke, stop it. There's no reason to smoke anymore, and quitting is possible.
If you drink, stop it. Same as above. Don't think that alcohol will solve your problems. It never does. The only exception is one glass of wine per day during meals.
Take the stairs.
Eat breakfast every day. Breakfast is the more important meal of the day, yet so many people skip it. Personally, I like to eat a couple of toasts in the morning along with a fruit beverage.
Sleep 8 hours. Sleep deprivation is never a good idea. You may think that you are gaining time by sleeping less, when in reality you are only gaining stress and tiredness. 8 hours are a good number of hours for most people, along with an optional 20 minutes nap after lunch.
Avoid snacking between meals. Snacking between meals is the best way to gain weight. If you are hungry, eat something concrete. Otherwise don't. Update: for clarification, I mean don't eat junk food between meals, but eating real food it's ok.
Eat five portions of fruits and vegetables every day. Our body and brain loves getting vegetables and fruit, so I highly recommend eating as much of them as possible. Five portions is the dose that's usually recommended by many health associations.
Eat fish. Fish is rich of omega 3 and other healthy elements. At least one meal per week of fish should be enough for getting all these nutrients.
Drink one glass of water when you wake up. When you wake up, your body is dehydrated and needs liquid. Make the habit of drinking one glass of water after you wake up in the morning. Also, drink more during the day.
Avoid soda. Soda is often one of the most unhealthy beverage you can find. Limit your consumption of soda as much as possible and you're body will be grateful for that.
Keep your body clean. I don't advise spending your day in front of the mirror, but a minimum of personal care does never hurt.
If you smoke, stop it. There's no reason to smoke anymore, and quitting is possible.
If you drink, stop it. Same as above. Don't think that alcohol will solve your problems. It never does. The only exception is one glass of wine per day during meals.
Take the stairs.
Stop sitting around wondering if this will work out or if
Stop sitting around wondering if this will work out or if
That won't work out. Get busy and find out for yourself.
Stop wishing that you had more to work with. You have more
Than enough to get started in this moment.
Once you start, once you make that first effort, you'll be
Able to tap into the power of momentum. The initial results
You get will enable you to make the next effort.
Quit worrying about not having enough time, for that
Worrying itself just wastes your precious time. Simply and
Gratefully make use of the time you have, and you'll always
Be making progress.
Put thought into your efforts, but don't make your thoughts
A substitute for your efforts. Get busy and put your best
Thoughts into effective action.
Give your best to this day, give your best to the effort,
And good things will come from it. Though it won't always be
The way you expect, you will always find ways to create
Real, unique value and richness in your life.
That won't work out. Get busy and find out for yourself.
Stop wishing that you had more to work with. You have more
Than enough to get started in this moment.
Once you start, once you make that first effort, you'll be
Able to tap into the power of momentum. The initial results
You get will enable you to make the next effort.
Quit worrying about not having enough time, for that
Worrying itself just wastes your precious time. Simply and
Gratefully make use of the time you have, and you'll always
Be making progress.
Put thought into your efforts, but don't make your thoughts
A substitute for your efforts. Get busy and put your best
Thoughts into effective action.
Give your best to this day, give your best to the effort,
And good things will come from it. Though it won't always be
The way you expect, you will always find ways to create
Real, unique value and richness in your life.
Friday, January 6, 2012
How Did Marriages Begin?
Marriages system is prevalent in all the countries of the world today. Throughout the human history, there have been three types of marriages. The first was the marriage of the primitive man who simply took away by force the woman he desired to his cave. The second type was the marriage by contract or purchase. This involved the purchase of the bride from her family, in exchange for money, cattle or horses. The third type of marriage, practiced in most of the countries of the world today, is the sacred bond having a social and emotional basis.
Marriage, in fact, is a social custom intended to provide social and emotional security to the partners. The marriage, ceremonies are performed and celebrated in different ways in different parts of the world. For example, the christian marriage ceremony takes place in a church and the Hindu ceremony before a fire. The ring ceremony is an important part of the Indian marriages. The ring, being circular in shape, is a symbol of completeness.
After the marriage, both the bride and bridegroom are declared as husband and wife. They become life partners. Most human marriages are at least intended to last for life, but many societies have some provision for divorce, ranging from the easy to the almost impossible.
Why divorce happens? Is marriage is considered as commitment or adjustment?
A divorce happens after a husband and wife decide not to live together anymore and that they no longer want to be married to each other. They agree to sign legal papers that make them each single again and allow them to marry other people if they want to.
Through awareness, analysis, and understanding, your marriage can begin healing and growing into the long-term, deep relationship you have always wanted.
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